Healing the Orphan Spirit #5: The Disease to Please

May 21, 2023    Heath Watts

In this powerful message, we explore the 'disease to please' and how it affects our spiritual lives. We're reminded that it's impossible to be both a people-pleaser and a God-pleaser simultaneously. The story of Jesus in John 2:23-25 illustrates how He refused to entrust Himself to people's expectations, knowing mankind's nature. We're challenged to examine our priorities and recognize that people-pleasing often stems from an orphan spirit seeking validation. By knowing our role, guarding it, and fearing God rather than man, we can break free from the anxiety and exhaustion of constantly trying to impress others. The message encourages us to find our worth in God's approval, not in meeting ever-changing human standards.


Chapters


Chapter 1: The Dangers of People Pleasing

Timestamp: 0:00 - 6:22

Introduction to the concept of people pleasing and its negative effects on our lives.


Chapter 2: Signs of Being a People Pleaser

Timestamp: 6:22 - 10:29

Five questions to identify if someone is a people pleaser.


Chapter 3: Knowing Your Role and Purpose

Timestamp: 10:29 - 19:38

The importance of understanding and guarding our God-given roles and purposes.


Chapter 4: Fearing God Over Man

Timestamp: 19:38 - 26:46

The importance of fearing God rather than man and seeking His approval.


Chapter 5: Living as Children of God

Timestamp: 26:46 - 36:43

Embracing our identity as God's children and living to please Him.